Self Test

Physical Abuse 

Has your partner:
shoved Pushed or shoved you?
keep Held you to keep you from leaving?
bit Slapped or bit you?
choked Kicked or choked you?
punched Hit or punched you?
objects Thrown objects at you?

Sexual Abuse

Has your partner:
jealously Been jealously angry, assuming you would have sex with others?
dress Insisted you dress in a more sexual/less sexual way than you wanted?
sexually Criticized you sexually?
unwanted Insisted on unwanted or uncomfortable touching?
affection Withheld sex and/or affection?
names Called you sexual names? (e.g. “whore” or “frigid”)
monogamy Demanding monogamy from you, while insisting on freedom for self?
others Forced sex with them or others or forced you to watch others?
beating Forced sex after beating?

Emotional Abuse

Has your partner:
feelings Ignored your feelings?
insulted Ridiculed or insulted your most valued beliefs? (i.e. religion, heritage, or class)
approval Withheld approval, appreciation or affection as punishment?
criticized Continually criticized you, called you names, shouted?
drove Insulted or drove away your friends or family?
private Humiliated you in private or public?

If you answered YES to ANY or ALL of these questions, you may be in an abusive relationship.  Please call for information and assistance (425) 252-2873.